Predict the Future By Inventing It

Don't Predict the Future - Invent the FutureThe best way to predict the future is to invent it—and we had better start now.

“Aude aliquid dignum” – Latin: “Dare something worthy”

How do you create your future? Do you predict your future based on what’s happened in the past? Have you limited what you imagine about your future to protect yourself from failure? Have your “good ideas” been steeped in a context of “realistic mediocrity?”

A powerful way to “predict your future” is to invent it from a compelling vision big enough to impact Humanity. When you fully commit to your vision and step into Visionary Leadership, then every fiber of your being and all your actions are magical expressions of that vision. As a visionary leader, who you are is created from your vision, and that you, in turn, manifests your vision.

A vision goes beyond a “good idea” by not only the unprecedented nature of the vision but the commitment of the person articulating it. When a visionary leader speaks, our listening is based on our trust in their credibility. When Steve Jobs spoke, people listened. When Warren Buffet speaks, people listen. When you speak, do people listen?

Vision touches, moves and inspires people and engages them to act. When Kennedy said in 1962, “The time has now come to send a man to the moon and return him safely again,” the needed fuel had not even been invented yet! And then, launched by his Visionary Leadership, in 1969 a man stepped on the moon. Vision is pure possibility with no need for historical evidence to support it. It is in the realm of the impossible; in other words, expect miracles.

Children are brilliantly optimistic about possibility. Unfortunately, we turn our children into adults who become “realistic” and fight for no possibility. As adults, we want to avoid the risk of a Vision and seek the protection of certainty. But, certainty is an illusion, and it is the feast where our EGOs and protection dine.

Do you talk about doing things rather than making them happen? Are you always getting ready to get started? Or, do you commit yourself in spite of your doubts and Ego? Do you live unstopped by obstacles and unfazed by other’s opinions?

Dream big. Risk boldly. Create a compelling vision worth living into. Be willing to fail. Expect miracles. Be unreasonable. Have it matter that you lived.

“An individual has not begun to live until he can rise above the narrow horizons of his particular individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity. Every person must decide, at some point, whether they will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness. This is the judgment. Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, what are you doing for others? – Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Dr. Lori Todd

By |2019-10-16T00:08:44-04:00February 18th, 2015|

If You’re Angry And You Know It Clap Your Hands!

Full self expression and happiness includes being angryPositive psychology tells us happiness generally comes to those who practice kindness, gratitude and living in the moment. However, we can end up feeling like we need to be happy all of the time. If you believe that happiness is the “normal” state, the “right” state, suddenly you can be faced with an interesting problem.

What if I’m not happy? What does that mean?
Is something wrong with me? Am I sick, bad, or deficient?
I should be happy. NOT.

New studies say long-term happiness comes from allowing ourselves to be angry (and a full spectrum of other emotions). To be authentic, successful and in integrity, we get to let ourselves feel emotions appropriate to any situation—whether or not they are pleasant in the moment. Anger in the moment is different than holding on to resentment, guilt, blame, victim, or hate. Experiencing anger is not the same as holding on to it and then using it and becoming it to justify a belief. Anger is a basic human emotion. Anger can lead to positive change and can provide a great opportunity for personal insight.

Give yourself permission to have flexibility and access to full self-expression, like a child. Different situations call for different emotions, and responding with what is called for is healthier than making sure you respond happy, happy, happy. People who value happiness to an extreme are not necessarily happier than others.

Emotions come and emotions go. WAAA. Emotions are like farts, pass them, hear them, smell them, and walk away from the cloud you created. WAAA. Feel it Baby!

By |2019-10-16T00:09:16-04:00February 4th, 2015|

We Have Dreamed It: Therefore It Is

Dr. Lori Todd - We Have Dreamed ItI have become convinced that everything we think and feel is merely perception:
that our lives–individually as well as communally–
are molded around such perception:
and that if we want to change,
we must alter our perception.
When we give our energy to a different dream,
the world is transformed.
To create a new world,
we must first create a new dream.”
John Perkins

By |2019-10-16T00:11:32-04:00January 15th, 2015|
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